Ever had a kid tell you half-defiantly, “I don’t read”? I’ve even had one who said, “I can read all right, but I won’t do it.”
Maybe they know we love challenges–they do bring rewards. One new non-reader ended up finishing three books in his first two weeks–non-fiction books with lots of pictures. My librarian knew boys.
One year, I had entire classes embrace reading. While a teacher was on medical leave, I got students who could not spell–and most did not or could not read well. For them, I chose Lois Lowry’s The Giver, a tale of a future without pain–no cold weather, no childbirth, no dead end careers, no old age. The cost was no excitement, no choices, and euthanasia. Well, these kids hadn’t known there were books that you had to argue with!
When we were done, I gave them six choices for their next book. They choose the darkest, Jane Yolen’s The Devil’s Arithmetic, a story of a Jewish girl inside a Nazi death camp. They wanted to feel.
When kids learn in order to get a great job someday, it restricts their interests. These are the greater gifts from reading.
1. LEARN TO MAKE LIFE CHOICES.
Analyze character’s actions–would you have done the same thing? Would you have risked death to hide Anne Frank in your home? Would you have accepted your aunt’s reasons for marrying a humorless Puritan? Would you have stayed with the plane or tried to walk out?
2. KNOW THAT, WHATEVER YOUR SITUATION, OTHERS HAVE FACED IT.
Pain is bad enough, but it’s harder to cope if you believe life is singling you out for ill treatment. So the kids at school make fun of your shoes, you can’t hit a basket with a bat, much less a ball, and your getting weary of hiding your mom’s alcoholism from the world. You are not alone. Others have survived–and grown–from such challenges.
3. LEARN TO UNDERSTAND PAIN AND PEOPLE’S REACTIONS TO IT
Before you suffer great pain, books can help you learn what causes it and how sufferers cope. What would it be like to lose a parent or a leg? How would it feel to be trapped in a avalanche or lost in a blizzard? What if your parents’ divorce or your brother takes his anger out on you? It happens. And people have not one reaction, but a string of them–and authors write of them.
We must endure much more than we can imagine–but we can be strong, at least sometimes, and learn to forgive ourselves for the others.